So you are excited about tonight; you came back from work early and you are waiting eagerly for your partner to come back. You have a lot in mind. But then your partner comes back from work late, all stressed and tired. All that he/she wants right then is some dinner and a comfortable sleep.
OK, now this a situation that most working couples face. An ‘all work and no love situation. But you can actually deal with it easily if you keep in mind a few things.
You partner is back from work and tired? Help him/her to relax. Take help from coffee and an aromatherapy oil massage. It will help them relax. Besides massage often leads to other things.
And who told you that you can only have sex at night? Have you tried morning sex? Think of it; both of you will be relaxed after a good night’s sleep. Imagine making love in the freshness of morning. Bliss, it is. Besides, experts say that testosterone is the highest in the morning.
Time to burst another myth- now who told you that you can only have sex in the bed? Try the bathtub. A warm soak in the bathtub will help your partner to relax and you will have a great time making love in the water.
Create a sensual atmosphere and wait for your partner to come back. Light up the candles, use a good room freshener and play some soothing music. The atmosphere will certainly help in changing your partner’s mood. Get her favorite flowers. And chocolates.
And who said that sex is all about the final act of penetration? Indulge into foreplay. Use props to make it fun. Wear good lingerie, the kind your partner always fantasized about.
Try chocolates. Make a dessert with chocolate. Besides being an aphrodisiac chocolate is also a great mood lifter.Help you partner relax during love making. You take charge for the time.
Did you try seducing your partner? They say that seduction is an art and you need to master it. So go ahead and think of things that excite your partner. Now put them to use. How? We won’t tell you. Let your imagination run wild.
But after all these, keep in mind there will be times at which your partner might be too stressed out to respond to anything. Maybe all that he/she wants is to fall asleep in your arms. And you will need to indulge in that at times.
If you are the one who is too stressed from work and all, you also keep in mind a few things.
Firstly don’t take your partner for granted. Remember all the efforts you made during your college days even during exam times to make him/her feel special? We understand you are very tired; but pick up a bunch of flowers on your way back home. Doesn’t take much effort to do that. And it will bring a smile to his/her face.
At times, skip office. You surely did bunk classes in college to meet your lover. Do that again. Fake illness; make up any excuse and take a day off. Stay with your partner. And if you manage to take a few days off, nothing like it. Both of you, go for a short trip to somewhere. Keep your phones switched off; spend every moment with each other.
But at the end, keep in mind, you both need to respect and understand each other; and everything associated with each other. Your partner is special, one of the very important people in your life. Again, your work won’t be with you always; but your partner will be there. So learn to prioritize. Keep in mind, these bonds made out of love and trust and not of any blood relations, they are very delicate and fragile. So, ‘handle with care’.