Why you aren’t getting an Orgasm
Sex is an important part of life and everyone wants to enjoy it. Getting an orgasm is the actual ultimate high of sex. An orgasm does not always come only with penetration. There are a variety of things that you can do or get done to you to have an orgasm. If you have yet never had an orgasm there are probably reasons why you may be unable to get one.
First of all when you are having sex take it slow; do not be in a hurry. Do a lot of foreplay and get excited some more. Foreplay is a very important part of sex. The more fore play the more you will want the sex and the more you are likely to enjoy it. Foreplay is getting you warmed up for the act. If you indulge in enough foreplay then you are sure to climax.
Another reason why you may not be getting an orgasm could be because during the act you are changing positions too often. This often gets quite annoying and one partner will lose the desire to actually finish the act. Stick with a few tried and tested and comfortable positions through the act. Another important thing; especially for women is to make sure to pass urine before having sex. If you are beginning to enjoy the foreplay you may find that when your man reaches the g spot; you will want to piss. This is because the g spot is connected to the bladder and this feeling will make you stiffen up making it difficult for you to reach an orgasm.
When you are going to have sex do it with no other thoughts in your head. Some women get in to bed with their man wondering what they need to cook for the next day or what groceries you need to buy. These thoughts are sure to ruin your chances of having an orgasm. Instead re tune your mind and body and just enjoy the experience.
A good way to get an orgasm is to caress your body all through the process of love making.
