Type Of Men You Should Stay Away From
Most of us have had our share of annoying creeps as lovers, short term or long term. It is mostly the same old story, you meet someone who are ready to do anything and everything for you, you look over all the small nuances that each other have and everything is just honkey dorey.
But then slowly reality sets in and if you are amongst the unfortunate ones you realise you are stuck in the worse relationship ever. Maybe you cannot avoid the unavoidable, but you sure can try and here are few tell tale signs that you should watch out for in the guy you just meet so that you can prevent yourself from falling into a relationship that you may regret for years to come.
Does he complain about everything around him? Think you can ever do anything that will make him stop? Well, if the answer to the first question is yes, then the answer to the second question is definitely no. Compulsive complainers and whiners will never stop, you can never satisfy them.
For such men you will always be too loud, too happy, too friendly, too whiny and will never be good enough for them. Avoid them like plague , because the more time you spend with them you’ll just lose your self confident and feel your self esteem being lowered.
It maybe due to his previous relationships or some other trauma, some men are emotionally cracked. Few of them make a sincere effort to move on, but there are few who dwell on this sadness and enjoy being heart broken. The wall around him would be so high that in couple of dates you will realise that how much ever you try you will not be able to scale it. Dont waste your time on such men.
Most guys love sports and will want to follow some major league or tournament or maybe have a sports night one day of the week. They know how to prioritise and will definitely know when to choose you over the sport.
But there are few obsessed sports freak, who wont care for anything else when his eyes are glued onto the television. Whether it is to run some chores or to watch the crying baby, he’ll just want you to refill his snack plate and need some ‘peace’.
Whether it is about what you wear, the way you walk, the way you eat, anything, whatever you do he’ll be watching you with a smug look on his face judging and analysing your every step. Your life is not a reality show and you do not need to be judged and marked at every stage. If your man cannot accept you for what you are, you surely do not deserve him.
Ones with ‘I’m better than the rest’ attitude:
Every human being should posses some amount of modesty in him or her, however well off in life they maybe. The men who think too high about themselves and think they are too good for the world are not the best kinds.
They get too whiny and hateful and eventually will start detesting everything and everyone around him just because he feels he is too good for anything. You definitely deserve better than a man like this in your life.
Paranoid and Possessive :
A little possessiveness is okay amongst couples, but sometimes things just go way overboard and you find yourself being stalked every minute or everyday. You do not want to be crowded with questions every moment of your life and have him follow you wherever you go.
Also, you wouldnt want to be questioned every step of whatever activity your do. Being in love doesnt mean you lose your individuality and self respect, everyone deserves someone who respects you for what you are and if your man cannot do it, leave him.