Teaching Manners To Kids
Teaching good manners to your child is a very important aspect of parenting. But it is important to remember that kids learn a lot by observing their elders.If you want your child to be well-mannered then behave in the same way yourself especially when you know your child is observing you carefully.
You cannot teach your kid how to behave himself by not following it yourself. If you want the child to learn politeness then set an example for him. Avoid using rough and filthy language especially in front of the kid. Your child is bound to mimic causing social embarrassment to you.
You should incorporate words like ‘thank you’, ‘please’, ‘excuse me’, and ‘sorry’ in your daily language. Use these words as often as possible and create situations for your child where he gets an opportunity to use them. Using these words will help the child become a better and sensitive human being.
Don’t get angry with the child if he forgets to use the words in his sentences. Politely remind him that he has forgotten to use them. Don’t nag your child and don’t make it an issue. But remind the child of the usefulness and importance of these words. Reward your child with a ‘good’ or a kiss when he uses the words without prompting.This will teach your child that good behavior is always appreciated.
Talk to your child before going out to a restaurant, social gathering or a public place. Tell him how important it is that he behaves himself properly. If in spite of the talk your child misbehaves in public don’t yell or scream at the child.And never hit the child for bad behavior. Sternly disapprove of his action. Once you get back home, firmly tell him that this kind of behavior is not acceptable. If the child is old enough to understand the gravity of the matter you can even punish lightly by reducing his playtime.
Every well behaved child has been taught manners at his parents’ knee. Don’t expect your child to know the basics of etiquette. You have to spend time with your child explaining to him what is acceptable and what non-acceptable behavior is. Teach him about politeness, courtesy and importance of maintaining other people’s privacies.
Never ignore bad behavior. This will encourage the child to repeat his behavior.
