Relationships : Signs and Signals
And they said Mathematicians are the brainiest people on earth. Well, even the most gifted of all mathematicians will not be able to decipher a girl’s signals correctly on the first try itself.The human mind is a huge repository of thoughts, memories, and feelings. And no amount of expertise can reveal what’s hidden in the deepest layer of a woman’s mind. It is because of this reason alone, that many couples end up having fights over even the most trivial issues.
Even though catching on what your girl really wants at all times can be quite difficult, there are some scenarios where you can actually decipher her signals correctly and know what she really wants you to do or say at the moment. Here are a few of those scenarios.
The next time she stops in front of a store and gawks inside; check your wallet to see if you have cash to spend.If you don’t, better push off from the spot at once. For your girl is definitely looking at something she wants to buy but cannot afford to.
If you move close to her to see what she is staring at, she would promptly point out something through the window, gush at how wonderful it looks and then admit with remorse that she doesn’t have the money to buy the article.
Here is when the warning bells start to ring. If you agree with her and walk away, you can expect her to lock up and remain glum the entire day. For what your girl really wants you to say in these situations is “I’ll get it for you”, (look out boys!).
Let’s say you are watching a crucial basketball match on your television. Normally in these cases, your girlfriend will just keep to herself, keep rambling on about how you don’t spend time with her anymore or just visit her friends. If however, she does none of these things and snuggles up to you on the couch, you can tell she wants something.
Now would definitely not be the right time to start talking about that ace player who never misses the loop. For that is the least of her concerns at the moment.
What she would actually want you to do would be to forget the match and give her your undivided attention. Now we know that this would be practically impossible, what with such an interesting match going on. However, you can trust the rest of your day to turn gloomy if you don’t switch off the television then and there.
A common scenario in many relationships! Your girlfriend looks at her reflection in the mirror and sulks about how fat she has become. What do you say to her? If you agree with her even slightly, you can expect the house to crash down on you any minute.
Girls never like to hear that they are fat or have gained weight. So when your girl asks you to see if she is fat or not, just ensure her that she looks smashing and that you like her the way she is. It doesn’t hurt to lie to your girlfriend about a few pounds she never lost in the first place. At the end of the day, you would have succeeded in placing a huge smile on her face which would be followed by innumerable treats.
Never praise another girl in front of your girlfriend, especially for her looks. Your girl may ramble on and on about this really cool friend of hers who just about has a perfect life and gets whatever she wants at the snap of a finger; or a really cool buddy who is very dependable and sweet.
If your girlfriend is talking about her friends, keep mum and nod your head at regular intervals to comprehend what she is saying (at least to show that you are following her).
If you join in on the conversation though and start praising her friend or inquiring about her, you will be surprised to note your girlfriend change her mind and start abusing the same friend she was praising about just a few seconds back.
The same goes for men as well. If your girlfriend is all praises for a guy she knows, she is probably giving off hints that you should follow in his footsteps.
Girls always like their guys to be chivalrous. If you don’t fall into that category and your girlfriend knows a guy who treats his girls like goddesses, you can expect her to talk about him atleast a couple of times a day, at least to tell what he does and what you don’t do.
So these are the more common scenarios where you can actually figure out what your girl wants when she talks about something else. Use these tips to score brownie points with your girl and become the perfect boyfriend.
