Important Dating Tips For Women And Men
Today’s youth is quite aware and informed with the help of information technology, but it has been found many times and is a proven fact that ‘Love is blind’ and when we fall in love we just forget the difference between right and wrong and many times fall in some trouble.
SO before you start walking on the road to romance and start dating there are few things that you just take care of. These few tips are very essential to remember while dating so that you do not fall prey to dating and end up in a mess. So let us check out some safety tips you must follow while dating.
Never Date in Office
If you are dating one of your colleagues then just beware that never try to show your love an start dating in the office premises or wherever you work , because it is illegal to date someone office premises. In India Supreme Court has passed a law according to which if any person shows love towards the other partner in the work area it can be treated as sexual harassment at the work place.
SO before you do any such acts be ready to bear the consequences. If the girl lodges a complaint against you then you will be in a mess. It has been found in many cases that after dating for years just because of some misunderstanding if the girl complaints against the boy then it is considered as a punishable act according to the law and many a times the boy has to leave the job or is being sacked because of such cases.
Even the girl should be aware that if she falls in love with one of her colleague then she loses the right of demanding any kind of alimony because according to the law there is rule that till the time a girl is married to the man or if she is a dependent on the man then only she can claim alimony from him and in the office if both are working together it is quite clear that she is self sufficient to fulfill her basic necessities.
Check the dates are not recorded in camera
Never ever get clicked while dating and try to avoid getting up close or physically intimate with your dating partner in front of camera. Many couples do this that while they go for dating they use mobile cameras to click their special moments and then land up in great mess just like the incident of MMS of DPS school girl from Delhi.
Many times if your boyfriend gets angry or pissed off with you he might upload your intimate photographs on the internet and this will be really bad to spoil your life. So try to avoid getting clicked whenever you are with your boyfriend.
Try to maintain some secrecy
When the love reaches the highest point they get so much emotionally involved that they start sharing each other’s secrets and all the important information’s related to each other. Information’s like bank account details, ATM password or cheque books should never ever be shared howsoever close you both are.
Be it the boy or girl there should be line which should not be crossed while dating especially bank related information, property related information or any family secrets should never be leaked to your boyfriend. The reason being if you have a tiff with him he can use it in wrong way just to get back at you. Money and glamour is these days ruling each and every relation, so be aware of this fact and do not get emotional and spill the beans.
Avoid false promises
Especially the girls should be more conscious of this fact that love is not just bed of roses there are hidden thorns also along with the rose. Before going out with your boyfriend on a date you should check out what kind of place he is taking you and what kind of people would be coming to the party.
There have been many incidents where just 1-2 girls are being invited by their boyfriends on the pretext of a birthday party and 4-5 men are there in the party. They add some sedatives in the cold drinks and then the worst happens with the girls. They are either gang raped and photographed nude or blue films are being made. Then these girls are being blackmailed by their boyfriends or the other men. SO never rely on anyone with closed eyes, generally girls being over emotional start trusting their boyfriends very easily and fall prey to such incidents.
In today’s fast moving life single women have to travel a lot or meet new people or high profile people for their work and these people try to us these girls for their sexual pleasure so they try to allure them with their money power and use such sugar coated language and the girls fall easily prey to the trap. But by the time they realise that they have been trapped it is too late because they have been physically, mentally and financially exploited by their so called boyfriends. So it is very important for women to be alert and act smart while dating.
Love should not be treated as Time pass
We have a very good examples for this that is Bollywood actress Parveen Bobby , she came from a small place rose to stardom and then many actors used her money and stardom to achieve their goals and when they got what they wanted they deserted her.
SO without testing your boy friend do not rely on him blindly and get used like her. You should try to analyses that it is not just your money and beauty that is attracting him towards you. Try to find whether he is ready to adjust with you and accept you as you are. There should not be contradictory tastes and likings, somewhere both of you should like something common and agree to it. Like if you are vegetarian and he is not ten both of you should learn to adjust to each other’s eating habits.
Thus dating should not be a disaster for you rather it should be beautiful part of your life which should rather end up in marriage which survives for long, then only it will be a perfect date for life.
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