How To Influence Parents
When we talk of how to influence parents, naturally we mean how to please them to look after our demands and aspirations. It is not insurmountable job but a bit artistic. While dealing with parents, ought to gain their confidence.
For that you have to convince them that you are loving, obedient, faithful and truthful in your dealings with them. You have to develop certain etiquettes and deliberate on certain settled facts. You have to be on their beck and call. You have to regularly wish them “Good Morning”, “Good Night” pleasently.
On other occasions, you have to share certain of their small small needs, like putting the geyser on for their bath, off and on making yourself a cup of tea for each of them and at times even massaging their legs or heads on holidays. You have to be caring for their guests and other visitors not only in their presence but even in their absence. If they have a pet, follow the principle of “LOVE ME AND LOVE MY DOG”. Please treat their pet affectionately and spend some value time with it also.
Be a good disciplined student bringing name and fame to your parents. Involve parents in guiding you in your studies by giving them the feeling that their knowledge and guidance has specific value for you.
In a nutshell, you have to first adopt all what parents expect from a child from the day it is born. All this should seem natural without letting them have the feeling that there is any sort of affectation or flattery in your dealings. More than eighty per cent job is done if you adopt this style to influence your parents. Rest, I am sure, God will help you!
