Ever wondered why some persons are able to attract other people wherever they go and make others stick around them. They are said to have that magnetism and aura around them. But, is this something they are born with or could it be developed at later stage of life by anyone?
We all have seen personalities who mesmerize everyone with their oration skills or with the way they perform an act. Sometimes, we see people with outstanding organizing abilities and with all sort of personal traits that we all wish to possess.
The aura to attract others, the power to get people (kind of) glued to you is an art and science both. And we all must learn it by understanding the basics of it. Those who have the ability to glue others to themselves are not superheroes.
There may be a few instances where persons had the inborn capability to attract others. However, anyone one can develop the trait by improving the way they behave, respond and communicate in their social network.
Learn the Art: The foundation here is a few personal traits that remain significant regardless of what you do. Whether you are organizing some event, addressing people on various matters, want to make people listen to you without getting disturbed or distracted or you wish to pass on some decision on them which (according to you) they should follow. For it you need to develop an entertainer in you.
Entertainer in you: This does not mean that you need to crack a joke or to do stand up comedian’s job. No!! Nothing of that sort is required here. You just need to be witty and humorous in your life. Find instances to fill other’s life with the lighter side of a subject. While delivering the objective see that other must always feel at home. They should be in their comfort zone.
Let them feel free: As the communication starter you are the in-charge of the situation now. And you are the leader among the mob. Let each one of them express freely. Let every member feel that they are importance and talk to each member by personalizing them with their first name and listening to their concerns.
Try it sometime and see how people regard you for whatever you say and do to them. And your dream to mesmerize others would get into reality.