Guidelines on how to Compliment a Woman?
Women love to get compliments, it’s a part of their reason for living. There are some women who will go out of their way and fish for compliments.
If you are interested in a woman one way to get to know her better or start talking to her is to compliment her; it will open doors for you automatically.
When you are trying to compliment a woman you need to be realistic. Say things that you really mean; if you love her outfit only then must you compliment it- chances are she may ask you to explain yourself. Don’t be over the top with your compliments; they come across as being unrealistic and fake.
Don’t try to speak in a woman’s lingo. Be direct and speak your own language else you may offend her or come across as a snide.
It’s a good idea not to compliment a woman on her figure or parts of her body; this makes a man come across as a pervert. If you must compliment her then the eyes, hair and her smile are your safest bet.
You may want to stay away from talking about her skin or flattering her about any part of her body as this comes across as being obsessive or unappealing. It’s a complete turn off especially if you are speaking to the woman for the first time.
If you’ve done something to make a woman mad at you don’t compliment her and tell her that she looks great when she is mad; this will make the situation worse. In this case all you can do is apologize and hope that she forgives you.
No woman likes to get complimented all the time; if you do so she will take you and your comments for granted. If you want to come across as being sincere then you need to spread out your compliments over a period of time and be diverse with what you say.
One of the most important things that you need to know is that you must avoid complimenting any woman just to get something in return.
Compliments that are based on a favor in turn are never welcome and you will loose your credibility with this woman. If you do require a favor it is better to ask directly rather than beating about the bush.
