Getting an Orgasm
Actual intercourse does not mean that a woman has achieved an orgasm. Men can climax once they have sex and ejaculate; but women need not be so lucky. Intercourse is not only about penetration. A lot more can happen before that.
Most women require a lot of fore play before the actual part of sex and most women reach an orgasm with oral sex. This is not a dirty thing however your man must be eager and willing to do it. It causes a great arousal for the woman when that area is stimulated by the finger or by the tongue. The warmth of your mouth can make her feel good. Once you reach the correct spot she can reach an orgasm in no time.
Sometimes men may find the smell of the womans body not satisfactory and may wince at the thought of trying oral sex. But there are edible creams available that can be used and applying chocolate sauce is also a good option. However even if you do attempt oral sex make sure never to blow in to the vagina of a woman as this is not only dangerous but can also be fatal.
Women often perform oral sex on men more easily than men do on women. This is done by taking in the penis in the mouth and also stimulating the scrotum. Men will not rech an orgasm with this. They need to actually do the act. So allow the woman to be satisfied before you try and satisfy your self. Oral sex is not harmful in any way and is by no means painful. If anything it is pleasurable. However if you are suffering from any discharge or have some infection then do inform your partner and refrain from the act at least for a while. Always clean yourself in that area after any act of sex.
There are so many women who may not have reached an orgasm as yet and have no idea what it is. So why not watch a movie on it together and get some in sight on it. You can talk to your spouse about it as you may both be missing out on some extra fun in your relationship.
