Avoiding Divorce – Tips For The Wife
Marriage off course is the union of two people, two hearts and two souls but personal space is something which even marriage shouldn’t take away from an individual. While pondering on how does marriages go on rocks several reasons may come into the open.
A thin line separates the choice whether to save a marriage or should one let the divorce happen in order to breathe easy. It depends much on personal choices as to how one perceives the spouse and the marriage; whether one feels there is enough love or love can be brought back or not.
Though the debate keeps going both within a marriage as well as outside as to who is more responsible for the marriage turning cold yet it’s being wise if both the partners start behaving maturely by introspecting within themselves more than finding the partner’s shortcomings.
A wife must learn that a man thinks, responds and behaves differently from a woman. Once she learns this difference a lot of doubts and hurts may evaporate from her mind as she may realize that what she felt as a sign of neglect on her husband’s part was just a way of behaving common in men.
Remember the things that make a man lose interest in his wife are that of constant nagging, taking away personal space and also remaining unimpressive to the husband. With time a wife will agree that a man cannot open up if he is constantly nagged or questioned; rather if he is left alone with his space he will emerge out of his temporary shell and seek solace in his wife during when the wife must show love towards her husband.
A wife must not give up on trying looking beautiful; she must take good care of herself and try to keep the interest and mystery about her alive. A man feels more attached to a woman who is mature emotionally, can be strong and support her man during crisis and is interesting on bed. Understanding differences, assertiveness, clear communication, good listening skills, confidence and honest intentions can help a wife to save her marriage and avoid divorce.